3.25 Warden Wildstrike need help

I am a player who has not played POE Since 2019 so all the help is appreciated.
originally was an Ele hit of Spectrum Bow Warden but I wanted to transition into something melee cuz it was buffed. My ele hit build was doing very strong damage but it felt so insanely rippy I was beyond frustrated. I wanted something that would be able to do all bosses and survive without an instant 1 shot that I dont even know what happened.

I Needed to be able to do elemental damage to take advantage of my Freeze/Unbound and stuff. I first tried a Reave of Refraction 1H/Shield builds because it was support to be big screen clear and ez to use but the damage felt like an insane downgrade.

I am currently using Wild strike with a phys wep, I am not married to my dagger so open to swapping that if needed. I like the clear of Wild Strike so pretty happy with that unless someone else had a different suggestion.

I currently still die like crazy and I am not sure what I am doing wrong. I have Fortification, Sand Stance, Some Block/Spell Block, Spell Suppression, Grace, Evasion. and 77 Max all Res and over 60% chaos res.

I feel like I invested so much into survivaial and I still cant stay alive, and my damage on bosses feels insanely low, it takes me probably 4-5 mins to kill the Pirate captain on the boat event as a frame of reference.

I got prob 30-30 Divine budget and an Enlighten 4/20 that I could sell for another 20 divs if needed. Please halp!!!!

Also unrelated I would love to see a video card/process/hard drive specs suggestion. I have DX12 and what I thought was a decent CPU setup but I get these frame drops on things like blight or harbinger where my char just afks till I am dead cuz I cant do anything. Any help there would be appreciated as well

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