pause game if window inactive

i just entered a new zone, alt-tabbed to do something during loading screen, and was dead when i tabbed back in

im a hc player at heart but i cant take the game super serious like i used to, got other things going on in life that i have to keep tabs on

these days if i die i just dont play again for weeks or months, and it feels sadge to die to an alt tab like this, happened 2 or 3 times now since poe2 came out :(

plz i just want to die to my own combat decisions