Build Help

So on PoE1, I can look at a builds POB and kinda tell right away whether the damage and defenses are on par with whats needed.

No frame of reference for PoE2, if I am wanting to complete all content, what DPS should I be pushing for? What defense metrics should I try to hit? (Other than capped resists)

I would be interested in what some of the more experienced players consider enough damage / defense too.

My character this season has has the following defenses.
Life 2180 HP
Armour 56k
Armour vs elemental 56k
Armour vs chaos 16.2k
All resists 74%
Immune to crit and poison.

With this I take almost no damage from mobs while mapping and can take hits from bosses that don't apply bleeding or ignite.
I am still missing the final 2 boss points since I haven't found a citadel yet.
I am also able to survive hits from the additional content bosses.
I have died twice in the last 3 levels once to ground effect because I wasn't paying attention and once to a level 82 empowered boss from ignite,

For damage my aoe attack does 69k-212k damage, everything just dies.
Boss damage is kind of hard to calculate but is probably over 1M dps.
Most bosses usually die within 10s.

I would definitely like some more life and I should probably try and work in some bleeding and ignite immunity.