Please critique my proposed build - Dual Totem Summoner + aura reduction

given that I am life based dual EK totem summoner and provided I get to lvl 85 (rest of the nodes in the two trees are the same, these are the differences)


current planned build :

44% increased HP
20 HP flat
30 Str
40 Int
20 mana regen
150 % increased crit chance
60% increased crit multiplier
12% physical damage
Minion Instability

OR

alternate build I came up with :

70% increased evasion
50 dex
Iron Reflexes
Mind over Matter
4% increased casting speed of my totems
30% faster casting for me summoning totems

With the build I have been aiming for I would get a lot of crit and crit multiplier nodes near the shadow. So more dps, plus more life than the alternate build.

With the alternate build I tried to path out, I would gain a lot of evasion nodes, Iron Reflexes, Mana Shield / Mind over Matter, and Totemic Zeal (30 % faster casting of totems) but I lose quite a few life nodes...

I can't decide what is better. As it is I am quite glass cannony, can get by just fine playing carefully and summoning my totems ahead, letting minions take the punishment. Resistances are capped and at 78%. HP is a pitiful 1865, no ES due to EB. Running 3 auras, Hatred, Purity and Vitality, Have plenty mana to spare to spam my 3 totems and curse. Can kill merc Piety quite easily, and tried some 66 maps - they were easy except the orchard - boss destroyed me. BTW - I am using 2x titty bitches as my spectres.

Would really appreciate some advice on this, I am finding it difficult to weigh the gains / HP / mitigation / dps difference of these two builds :/